Mother’s Day

Cremated Remains

The Delivery of Mom

I like it dark. I like it really dark when I’m sleeping. The sheet and blanket pulled over my head, the light peeking through the

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krishna holding flute
Coping With Grief

What Will Krishna Do?

I do not envy Lord Krishna when he meets my mother in his Heavenly Abode. Before she passed away in the COVID ICU, my mother

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Cemetery
Coping With Grief

Friday’s Child

Around 4:30 on the first afternoon of any June in our last years together, she would say, “This time _ years ago,” and I would

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Marionette and Heart
Coping With Grief

I Am A Marionette

Yiddish was Mom’s first language. She was not even exposed to English until she went to kindergarten. Yiddish was also the secret language that my grandparents reverted to when they did not want us to understand them.

We caught on fast and learned to crack the code. We knew that gib a cook meant “take a look”; that gay gezunte hate meant “go in good health”; that tsorris was “suffering.”

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